Sunday, March 16, 2014

The Ugliest Girl Ever To Enter A Beauty Contest

"They thought I was joking," said Sarah. "But I was as serious as the sun. I was focused on my cause. So, no one was going to change my course. Come what may, I wasn't gonna  rise from the west and set in the east."
"What are you talking about?" The interviewer asked. "Do you wanna tell me that you never sent them a photo because your looks would disqualify you straight away?"
"No, I didn't. I sent them a picture of my heart. No I mean a picture of my supper
WARNING: NOT FOR SENSITIVE VIEWERS
taken by our good neighbor Mr. Jusben. Since some people got Lilly hearts, and may not stand the sight of goat hearts; I put a warning sign on the envelop. I wanted to show them that I also had a heart and a big one for that matter. So, my looks wouldn't stop me from realizing my dreams. You know what?"
"What?"

"I wanted to take a picture of my dreams and show them how good I look when I'm the dreamland but I couldn't because I sleep naked. So, I sent them a CD to tell them the naked truth that I wasn't scared to be regarded as the ugliest girl ever to enter a beauty contest because I was so sure that I'd come out tops."
"What do you mean?"
"Please don't get me wrong. I've nothing against those who are beautiful."
"Why?"
"Because beauty is the standard measure of quality and greatness and not mediocrity. Whatever is beautiful deserves to be given a chance to shine."
"But you refused to submit your photo and be seen."
"Of course I did. The camera only captures the outside beauty. I sent a CD. The mike captures something that's part of the inner beauty. I'm talking of my beautiful voice here my friend."
"Don't you think you were entering a wrong contest?"
"You tell me. The last time I entered a contest that I thought was the right one, I was told that it wasn't just for the radio where people would only hear my voice but TV too; so my looks were refusing to come to the party for me."
 
The interviewer looked at her and smiled. Instead of wearing a long face, she was wearing a broad smile. When he saw the radiance of her smile and the confidence oozing out of it, he was speechless. The only words which managed to escape between his lips were, "so what was the content of your CD?"
She slotted a CD into the player, hit the play button and an angelic voice on top of beautifully produced instruments filled the air. To summarize it all, this is what he heard:

Music isn't a beauty contest of looks but artistic expression. So looks of an artist alone shouldn't be what makes a song a hit. The truth is, we are all equally blessed but in different ways. Some of us look ugly outside but so beautiful inside and the works we do based on our inside looks are a true reflection of our inner beauty.

But just as nobody chose to be beautiful or ugly and the color of their skin, nobody chose to be poor or rich intellectually. Though we've in us the ability and the burning desire to change our fortunes and well being, no matter how beautiful or talented you're, on your own, you'll flop. You'll languish at the bottom and watch others making it to the top. Sadly, that's the way it is.

We're birds of a feather. We'd support one another. In life; we all get our blessings from others. Even the rich need support or else they'd be needy and tomorrow they'd be looking for it."


After this interview was aired, God sent Sarah an angel who had an eye for talent who made her dreams come true. This girl has just signed a contract with a major label. And her first album will be titled "Love Me" and her sleeve will be this picture
of a necklace designed by J. Durham which her dad gave her before he died. He gave it to her so that despite her looks, whoever saw her wearing it should realize that she too had a heart and deserved to be loved like everybody else.

So, if you believe in yourself and your God given talent, no matter how long it may take, God will never allow your talent to go to waste. If you believe you're a little star inside, one day, you'll shine and you'll be proud to call yourself the ugliest girl ever to enter a beauty contest and won it hands down. So, don't lose hope. Good luck my friends.

If you don't know my real name by now, just call me D in The Darling, baby!

Sunday, January 26, 2014

To All The Sweet Hearts I've Broken In My Life

Hi, to you all!
Thanks for coming at such a short notice. Even though you never knew each other, you all played a role at a certain point in my life. I know what I did was bad but believe me; it was right. I am saying this because I never meant to hurt you. Baby, if I'd make you happier, I wouldn't have hesitated at all to sell my own mum.

I'm from the humblest of backgrounds, of course! This muddy hut and these few notes, is all that my dear mum had. She went through a lot in life but that smile never faded away. She wore it even in the scorching sun while she worked in the fields to fend for us. I got first hand experience of a mother's love for her kids. And because of her love, I got a very soft spot for women. I adore and hold in high esteem every woman and I'd never hurt the one that I love. My dear Ex, though we were so poor, I was taught to believe in myself and always try to do the best that I can in whatever it is that I'm given a chance to. In my ears, her words still ring like a bell. So, I remember so vividly that no matter what; or wherever I  may go and how successful I might become, I'd be humble and always be myself and never forget where I am coming from.
  
Since I know myself so well, I knew that I wasn't the right one for you. You deserved better. So, I had to leave for Mr. Right to move in. Though I couldn't find you one before I left, I only wanted the best for you. I'm so sorry to hear that I broke your heart. If you had told me that I was the best you've ever had and you'll never find another one like me, I'm sure I'd have stayed. Since the one I got now, has told me exactly that, and I'm so happy to be appreciated so much, I'm sad to let you know that I'm not coming back to you anytime soon in this life. If you had any hopes, please; I'm begging you; bury them alive. We've promised each other that "till death do us part."And that's the promise; I intend to keep.

So, my appeal to you is; next time you meet a guy that you really like, please open up a bit. I don't mean your legs. Any woman can do that. I mean your mouth. Tell him exactly how you feel. Just to give you a tip on guys; no matter how many times you may sleep with a guy, it won't make you the best because every guy knows that every girl knows how to sleep. So, in love; keeping a guy isn't always about how good you're in bed. Sometimes try telling him what's in your pretty well permed curl kitted, dread-locked or clean shaven head. Though some vital organs on a man are automatic, he is like a horn. You've to press the button to let him know what you want. If you don't, don't cry; because he's so bad with guessing especially when it comes to women body language.

To those sweethearts I broke up with without jumping onto their beds; I'm happy that you didn't see how clumsy I was then. But if you wanna know, I'm so good with my hands now; and I'm not letting this girl go!
Since that's all I've changed, even if you may not find it in your heart to forgive me; I'm so glad that at least you understand. So, anytime you need a friend that you can trust, I'm still here, wishing you the best; always!

I'm happy to see the man that I turned into. And you'd be proud of yourself because I can never talk of  my life without you crossing my mind. Goodbye. That's my message to all the sweet hearts I've broken in my life.

Friday, August 16, 2013

Why Women Fight Over Men

A guy's like a diamond in the rough. Once you've polished him and he looks really good, he doesn't only become every girl's best friend, but every woman wants to have him for herself. So, if you really love your guy, you're right to protect and fight for your man!

After you've done all the hard work, would you really allow anybody even those who rebuffed him before to just come and snatch him away? 

Friday, March 22, 2013

There's Something About You

SONG THEME:

No matter what happens, regardless of race, every man should strive to be the champion in his woman's eyes. The moment he manages to change his ways, and that picture in turn changes the way she looks at herself and the world around her, and she appreciates that whatever he does, he does it for her out of love and nothing else, then he's won both the war and the biggest battle in life.

                                                           THEREFORE

“No man will ever be truly proud, till he stands out in a man’s crowd; not by his staggering height or length of his name, but the profound depth; of his love for the woman in his heart; because she’s the only one whose part; in his life determines the quality of life; he leads so, a man must be just as faithful as his wife!” 

Ladies and gentlemen, should these be my last lyrics to share with you, or should I die now, may these be my last famous words. By the way, that's the first verse of another song! God willing, you'll see that one too.

STORY BEHIND THE SONG


Dannie and Annie are head over heels in love with each other. After a disastrous relationship which finally came to an end through a drunken driving road accident, Annie couldn't believe the twist in the tail of fate. It was the end of her string of broken hearts which had started in The Warm Heart of Africa.

Twenty one years ago, she was the only white girl in Professor Carr's second year Psychology Class. As an American student, she'd landed at The University Of Malawi's main campus, Chancellor College on an exchange program. Even after all these years, she still remembers the charming, warm and lighthearted, and not just the most brilliant Psychology student but also the most amazingly talented love song writer she had ever met.

It wasn't therefore surprising that he's the guy that had stolen her heart. Their hearts though, were broken by circumstances seemingly beyond their control. Forget the color. What else would you expect to come out of that relationship? Would Annie, the daughter of a prominent Evangelist; Lenard Bounty, and Omar "Wawo" Osman, the only son of a leading Muslim Clerk, Sheikh Osman Muhammad from Mangochi; ever get married? Sometimes they wished things were different. 

When Annie and Omar reconnected through Facebook, Annie was glad to hear that Omar was happily married. As surprised as she was, that he had managed to cross the sacred line and married a Christian beauty from Ntcheu; he too couldn't believe that she had finally met her soul mate in the guy called Dannie, an American Muslim! Now that it was clear that they couldn't allow religion or anything stand in their way ever again, they realized that since none of them was strong enough to withstand those forces then, they had to accept that their love wasn't just meant to be. Therefore satisfied with what they had, they couldn't even try striking a match and throwing it over there to see if their old firesticks could catch fire. 

When Annie asked Omar to write her a song for Dannie, he asked for a photo which defined her and described the way she felt about Dannie. She sent him something like this photo. Dannie having become an ardent fan of Omar's writing, now using his pseudo name, D in The Darling, couldn't hold back his tears as she read him for the first time every word he had passionately laid down.

"Dannie," said Annie. "Don't cry. Are you crying because this guy still got a clear picture of my heart?"
"No, baby." he replied. "I'm crying because I can see the hand of fate in all this."
"Hand of fate?"
"Of course, baby. Look at the first verse. He's captured my role in your life so well and painted his own picture with his words. Do you remember that you're the only survivor in that freak accident?"
"And you rushed me, an unknown drunkard to the hospital?"
"I was just doing my job. That's what paramedics are paid for."
"And paying for my rehab?"
"I had the means."
"And dating me?"
"I had the need."
"Wow! Of all the clean girls around, why did you choose me? What did you see in me you sweet potato? Did religion ever matter at all?" she said while holding his chin.
"Religion? Never. I saw an amazingly beautiful woman who found herself in the wrong lane in life," he replied as she shone her light into his soul. "Any person regardless of religion can be in that situation. We're all human."
"I'm so lucky that you found me. And the second verse, do you see this? The bridge, wow! Every month end, was tough for me and my late ex. We couldn't even think of making love. We had no appetite at all. All sorts of bills and unpaid loans took a serious toll on us. Trying to make love in that situation would be like making love at a funeral. Instead of seeking professional help to heal our wounds, we tried to conceal them and bottled up our pain in real beer bottles."
"Well, that's water under the bridge. I'm here now. And God willing, I'll take you across to the other side of life where there's no pain.
"Oh, my sweet Dannie, you make me blush! You know what? I already got a tune for this song. Now listen. I wanna sing it with my heart and soul. I hope it'll be enough to express exactly how I feel about you. Dannie, my sweet darling, my hero, my knight in shining armor, my angel with wings to make me fly;

 There’s Something About You"

VERSE ONE

I’m telling you; you've nothing to prove
You've already done enough to improve
The way I see myself and things around
Me, the atmosphere which you surround
Me with, brings a certain aural which fills
Me, with unusual inner peace which heals
Wounds of my painful past, without doubt
Sweetheart; that’s what I wanna talk about

CHORUS

There’s something about you, could it
Be love? Cos the more I think about it,
The more I wanna spend my entire life
With you; there’s something about you
                    
There’s something about you, could it
Be love? Cos the more I think about it,
The more I wanna spend my entire life
With you; there’s something about you

VERSE TWO

Whenever I’m with you I forget my past
All I care’s how to make this feeling last;
When you touch me, o ooh! I feel like I’m
In a different skin, when I lie on your arm
It feels like paradise as I feel your fingers
Ignite the fire inside; as my desire lingers
On, I close my eyes; and the anticipation
Of a hot kiss gets my soul’s participation

CHORUS

There’s something about you, could it
Be love? Cos the more I think about it,
The more I wanna spend my entire life
With you; there’s something about you
                    
There’s something about you, could it
Be love? Cos the more I think about it,
The more I wanna spend my entire life
With you; there’s something about you

BRIDGE

Dysfunction from stress of unpaid loans 
Is long gone, with you; I boast of groans
Yes, you ain't my first but you’re the first
one to fill me with this unquenchable thirst

CHORUS

There’s something about you, could it
Be love? Cos the more I think about it,
The more I wanna spend my entire life
With you; there’s something about you
                    
There’s something about you, could it
Be love? Cos the more I think about it,
The more I wanna spend my entire life
With you; there’s something about you

THE END


THE PHOTOp1020366_bearbeitet.jpg by Kathe

THE TRUTH:


But did Omar and Annie tell their parents about their relationship or they're just too scared to even try the waters and swim up stream? What about their education? Remember; they're just in second year.

Who among us has got a sharp eye to prick the pride of fate and peep into one's future? Do you have an idea of the color or religion of the person that God has created for you as your soul mate? Why do we therefore allow ourselves to become enemies over issues like these? Has it ever occurred to you that maybe today you're still walking with a broken heart because you refuse to look beyond the boundaries set by color or religion?



FOOD FOR THOUGHT

Instead of using our forked tongues and eyes that can't see in the dark, let's allow our hearts to talk to each other. Only hearts got eyes which see no color that's why they can see so clearly even in the dark. Ever asked yourself why you don't need light to make love? There, lies your answer!

So, go out there and search for a soul mate. When you finally find yours, make it last because everyday we live; brings us closer to our destiny. If we love one another, we'll all get there with a smile. Hugs and kisses to you all!

Sunday, March 17, 2013

What Hurts The Most

SONG THEME

Why do most couples break up once one of them gets a break in life? Should we always pray to remain poor in order to be together for life? 

STORY BEHIND THE SONG


Everybody could see that the only thing that drove Bertha into Luther's arms was nothing but love. When they got married, Bertha didn't care that Luther was too broke to afford even a smile. She took it upon herself to do all she could as a good wife, not just to put a smile on his face but put money in his pocket too. She bought him nice clothes to improve the way people looked at him as a man. She also prayed for him. When he couldn't secure a loan from any bank, against her family's wish; she used her own money. She established for him the business that he always wanted. And to tell you truth, they loved each other so much and "For poor and for rich, till death do us part," seemed like were words well uttered!

When his pockets became full, things changed. He started coming home late. As they always say, his excuse was a busy work schedule. When she wanted her conjugal rights, he'd say he's too tired. She wanted to, but refused to face her fears in case they became a nightmare. 

Things went bad but she still hoped for the better like most women do. The last nail in Bertha's marital coffin though, was driven home with his divorce announcement. So shocked, she looked at him and said, "Look me in the eye and tell me you can't see my tears. I feel this pain deep inside my heart. I love you and it's so difficult for me not just to take this and say goodbye but to believe that you're actually doing this to me. Luther, after all these years, after all we've been through, you mean this is how you intended to end? What happened to  our love? What happened to the prayers we made together for a better life? Are you seriously leaving me because you are now rich? Are you telling me I should have prayed for more bad luck for me to continue supporting you so that we'd remain together forever?"
"I'm sorry Bertha," he said. "I thought for better and for worse was forever. Better came sooner than expected. Now I wanna put the worst part of my life behind me. Since you're part of that period, I hope you'll understand why I wanna put you too behind me."

"Since you've made it clear that I'm not the one you want in your life, and you're moving on, I guess I've to try to do the same. Now that I know for sure, I believe it's true that life's a journey. You were therefore one of the stages on this journey of mine and not my destination. My journey doesn't end with your departure. No matter how difficult it's gonna be trying to live without you, rest assured; I'll continue living my life just like before you came into it. I achieved so much on my own and I'll still achieve so much more. There's life after a broken heart. I'm hurting of course but I love you enough to let you go not just in peace but alive and in one piece. But before I let you go, let me tell you 


WHAT HURTS THE MOST

INTRO

It’s sad and hurts to admit that

VERSE ONE

You were so down and deflated,
I got you pumped up and elated
To me it was love, your inflated
Ego remembers nothing related
To your past which I made right
You’re dull, now that you look bright
And get noticed, it’s so painful that
I've become the dull one you can’t see

CHORUS


And that’s what hurts the most
To know that I love you yet I’m
Not the one you want and watch
You leave, for someone we both 
know so pretty well will never love 
You like I do, yet there is nothing
I can do which will make you stay,
Baby, that's what hurts the most!

VERSE TWO

I was there through your rough patch
I mended your heart as a perfect match
and revived your dreams, we’re so close,
but now that your dreams have come true
we have grown so far apart and it
hurts to know that while your body was
here sleeping with me, your mind was so
far away making love to someone else

CHORUS

And that’s what hurts the most
To know that I love you yet I’m
Not the one you want and watch
You leave, for someone we both 
know so pretty well will never love 
You like I do, yet there is nothing
I can do which will make you stay,
Baby, that's what hurts the most!


BRIDGE

I loved you even when you had nothing
A little love was always enough for me
I prayed for you, now that my prayers
have been answered, it crushes me to
see that I’m not good enough for you

CHORUS

And that’s what hurts the most
To know that I love you yet I’m
Not the one you want and watch
You leave, for someone we both 
know so pretty well will never love 
You like I do, yet there is nothing
I can do which will make you stay,
Baby, that's what hurts the most!


FADING

You don’t give a damn giving your heart
to somebody who’s just gonna break it,
the very same heart I worked so hard to 
get fixed, baby; that’s what hurts the most!
THE END

THE PHOTOIMGP7983.jpg BY EARL 53


GENERAL ANALYSIS


Let's take a minute and look back. Do you still remember what brought the two of you together? Do you remember the first time you kissed? Was money ever involved? If you got married for love and prayed for success, shouldn't success be the sole reason for you to cling to the woman that stood by your side when you had nothing? Where was that woman you're seeing now? Do you've any idea of the man she loved before you, how and where she dump him? Can you really punish your loving woman for having been so loyal to you? 

Eish! Trying to find answers to all these questions only makes it clearer as to what pains the most. So my message to all of us lovers; let's love each other and honor our vows because that's what we expect our partners to do. To those still hurting, may you find closure in the hope that one day, you'll also find real love like that of Celine Dion and her husband,René Angélilwho sold his house to launch her career. After making it, success didn't get to her head. Celine didn't return the favor by divorcing her husband for a younger guy! 

Sharing nothing but real life experiences which affect us everyday. So keep smiling my friend. And that's all I'll ever ask of you. Hugs and kisses to you all.

Sunday, March 3, 2013

Fainthearted


FAINTHEARTED

SONG THEME:

"A faint heart lost his fair lady." Most guys are cowards. They can't face their dream girls. Girls, did you hear that? That's the first reason why most guys cheat.

STORY BEHIND THE SONG:




Jack has had enough. He's so sick and tired of just being friends with Jackie. His, is not just a crush. They're meant to be. Even their names suggest their love's written in the stars. He feels she's not just the right woman for him; but she's right on the tip of his nose. He can smell her. If his tongue was long enough, he'd have licked her beautiful lips. How he wished he was a chameleon! But could he change his color?

The problem was with his heart. Since he couldn't gather enough courage to spit the words out of his mouth, he got so scared that he might end up giving it to somebody else. Out of total frustration or mere necessity, of course; that every man's heart must eventually belong to a woman.

"Aha!" he said to himself in total oblivion of his surroundings. "That's why most guys cheat."
"You mean you know the reason why most guys cheat?"
"Huh?" He couldn't believe that he wasn't just alone but he was with her on their usual play ground.
"Being a girl, I'd really like to know what it is. Can you share it with me, please?"

 "Jackie, where do you I start?"
"Just anywhere," she said with a smile. "I just wanna hear what it is."
"In fact," he went hesitantly. "This is the very first reason why guys cheat."
"Really? Let it all out then."
"Look at me. Can't you see what I mean?"
"What is it?"
"Since most guys can't handle rejection, they often go for easy prey who unfortunately often love them wholeheartedly. When their fortunes improve, they go out looking for their dream girls or somebody close."
"What?"
"Listen Jackie. All I'm trying to say is----," he couldn't finish his sentence.
"What?"
"Jackie, isn't it sad? You know that I'm a good guy, don't you?"
"Yes I do. That's why you're my friend."
"Will you be happy to hear that I'm a cheater? Jackie, no matter how much I'm loved, if I'm not with you,
I don't see how I'll be faithful."
"What are you saying?"
"Jackie, all I'm trying to say is that before you, I'm so

FAINTHEARTED"


VERSE ONE

Appearance can deceive
Look at me, I look so strong
But I've a soft spot for you
I've been dying to tell you this
But I couldn't find the courage
To tell you exactly how I feel
And all the things I do to you in
my dreams cos when I see you:

CHORUS

I become so fainthearted
Whatever I wanted to say
I cannot say it anymore
Cos you take my breath away
So my heart fails me again
Before you, I'm fainthearted

VERSE TWO

My love is growing stronger
The thought of another jerk
Winning your heart makes me sick
Please, I'm begging you, don't
let this happen to me, I'll never
forgive myself if I end up with
someone I don't really love
Just because instead of telling you:

CHORUS

I become so fainthearted
Whatever I wanted to say
I cannot say it anymore
Cos you take my breath away
So my heart fails me again
Before you, I'm fainthearted

BRIDGE

I love you so much, if actions
Would really speak louder than words,
You would know that my love's true
And that's why when I see you:

CHORUS

I become so fainthearted
Whatever I wanted to say
I cannot say it anymore
Cos you take my breath away
So my heart fails me again
Before you, I'm fainthearted

FADING

I got all this on loan, if love was
a credit facility, I'd just fill out the forms
and you'd be mine, I don't wanna cheat
tomorrow cos today, I'm so fainthearted

THE END

PHOTO: IMG_0353.jpg BY CMSTURGEON

THE TRUTH:

How many guys got the guts to face their dream girls? Girls, are you so blind that you can't see the love in that poor guy's eyes? Just look at her. It is that kind of laughter that makes guys shake in their boots whenever they feel like saying it. Don't you think this is true?

The problem is, guys don't know what's good for them. When a girl sees what she wants in a guy and wanna help him out, the same tongue tied and fainthearted guy turns around and calls her names. Where did we go wrong? Hugs and kisses to you all.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Keep Pushing

SONG THEME

Just like any man, every woman got dreams too. And they don't die when she falls in love or gets married. As a woman supports her man to realize his dreams, instead of standing in her way, every man should give his woman all the support she needs; in cash or kind in order to realize hers too; and remain a good couple.

STORY BEHIND THE SONG


Jimmy and Emmy are deeply in love. Jimmy feels that as the man in the relationship, it's his responsibility to take care of his woman; buy her nice clothes and do all sorts of things that she deserves as the queen of his heart. Emmy on the other hand, feels she needs freedom to wear whatever she likes and pursue whichever dream she feels will make her feel complete. Here's how their little conversation progressed:

"Baby," said Jimmy. "I think there's something you don't understand here."
"And what could that be?" she replied calmly. "Is it wrong for me to pursue my dreams and wear anything I want while pursuing them?"
"No my dear."
"So, what's your problem?"
"Baby, you know how much I love my boxers. If you can't allow me to wear them to work, why should I allow you to put on your mini skirts which are even much shorter than my boxers?"
"I'm a woman. After all you fell in love with me while I was in them. Why should I change now?"
"Women are really amazing. Wasn't it just yesterday when I came home late and you told me, I can't continue living like a bachelor when I'm married? So why do you wanna continue dressing up like a spinster, so single to the bone and still looking?"
"What?"
"Look here girl. I love you. I'm here to help you live up all your dreams including romantic ones. I'm not like most men. When I see a woman looking snazzy, instead of dating her, I take my own woman shopping to look like or even better than her. If it's a beautiful hairstyle, I take you to the salon too. Or don't I? You've to look good for me and nobody else and I got look good for you and nobody else. If we don't keep each other interested in one another, how do you expect us to remain faithful?"

"Jimmy, there you go again! Wearing mini skirts doesn't mean a woman isn't being faithful."
"Well, it's up to you to remain a girlfriend or a wife. Everything on me is for your eyes only and if it's difficult for you to do the same, then I guess you and I still got a long way to go to become one."
"What are you saying?"
"Baby, I care about you. I wanna make things easier for you. So, I don't wanna say; ladies first in the morning because there's dew on the grass, come afternoon; when it's time to get what's due to you then men first and you come home crying because even that jerk earns more than you just because he's a man."
"Ha! Can you come again, Jimmy!"
 "Emmy, most men will just use you. Check the kind of the rights they give to women. They say democracy, just for women to vote for them. How many female presidents have we had in our nation's history; if it's truly ladies first?"
"Jimmy, leave politics alone."
"Well, I might not be the key to each and every door you wanna open in life. But as a jimmy, you know what I can do to doors. Look at my muscles, look at my boots. I can kick any door open; if you want me to. But if you wanna stand there and try to push it open on your own, well, all I can say is;

KEEP PUSHING

VERSE ONE

Every woman got dreams which don’t
Die when she falls in love, so; it breaks
My heart when you cry, baby; I am here
for you; whatever you want, I’ll do it for 
you; coz I love you, it’s my duty to open 
doors for you, if you insist; you got your 
own hands, I’m not just gonna watch you 
Banging doors, I’ll be rooting for you; so

CHORUS

Keep pushing, sometimes the hinges give
in and you won’t just find yourself inside 
But standing right on top of the door that 
kept you out for so long; so keep pushing
Keep pushing; sometimes the hinges give
in and you won’t just find yourself inside 
But standing right on top of the door that 
kept you out for so long, so keep pushing

VERSE TWO

Listen girl, since I love you, when I scratch, 
I don’t just scratch on the surface, so if you 
don’t wanna hear the truth, please don’t ask 
me; I really don’t wanna be the one to make 
You cry coz sometimes, your tear is enough 
To make me cry too, so; unless it is tears of 
joy, don’t look at me if you’re crying seated, 
punching the floor while leaning on the door

CHORUS

Keep pushing, sometimes the hinges give
in and you won’t just find yourself inside 
But standing right on top of the door that 
kept you out for so long; so keep pushing
Keep pushing; sometimes the hinges give
in and you won’t just find yourself inside 
But standing right on top of the door that 
kept you out for so long, so keep pushing

BRIDGE

I’ll cook for you, so you don’t lose weight 
it’s not jealousy; I buy you descent clothes
Thinking of real doors, in life; those opened 
Naked close so fast, so just be yourself and

CHORUS

Keep pushing, sometimes the hinges give
in and you won’t just find yourself inside 
But standing right on top of the door that 
kept you out for so long; so keep pushing
Keep pushing; sometimes the hinges give
in and you won’t just find yourself inside 
But standing right on top of the door that 
kept you out for so long, so keep pushing

FADING

Baby, I don’t care about your shape or size
As long as you can get through my bedroom 
Door, and I do my thing; you can lean on me 
And if you still feel it in there, keep pushing!


THE END

THE TRUTH


Being single is a status. It has got its own code of conduct. When you upgrade yourself to "in a relationship," you're in another status, with it's own norms and code of conduct, taking into consideration the other person as well. When you finally upgrade to the premium status and you proudly say; "married," only a fool would want to disregard the norms, conduct and dress codes of that status and continue living like either single or just dating.

Both men and women wanna get married to a marriage material type of a person and realize one's dreams. If that's what you want, step up. Instead of living in peace with each other should we be doing things to satisfy others? Shouldn't we therefore dream together and join hands to exploit every opportunity that might improve our standard of living instead of breaking up every time one's fortunes improve? Let's try something new. If it's still hard, let's keep pushing.

Make that woman the happiest wife that has ever walked the earth of the earth. Kisses and hugs to you all. +Britney Spears +Chris Brown +Rihanna +Chris J. Gagné